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From Our Families : Budget Crisis - No Painless Choices! |
From Our Families: There is Still Time to get organized for a Successful Summer! |
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| Legislative Update: Budget Crisis - Overview of Possible Funding Cuts by Legislature | Around the State: How to Advocate For More Services for Your Child |
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| Program Update: Central Texas Faith in Action Respite Cooperative | Legislative Update: The Good (not much of that), The Bad (plentiful), and The Ugly (more to come)… |
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| Book Review: Planning Care for Children in Respite Settings | Reasons to Celebrate – Innovative School Programs: How to Advocate for Parent Liaisons at Your ISD |
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| Around the State: 2003 Youth Leadership Program | Around the State: Meeting Mobility Needs By Tammy Mann, TxP2P |
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| Places to Go, Things to See!: Summer Camp: To Send Your Child or Not | From Our Families: Don't stop! Don't ever give up! | ||
| Around the State: Mothers’ Milk Bank at Austin | Thank you to Parkland Community Health Plan and Health Care First for sponsoring this newsletter. |
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| Around the State: Kid & TeenSAFE, Personal Safety for Students with Disabilities | |||
| From Our Families: Someone Who Understands | |||
| Texas Parent to Parent Needs Your Help! | |||
| Fall 2003 | Winter 2003 | ||
From Our Families: School Begins! Which was it for you? “It came too soon!” or “Finally !” |
TxP2P Update: Thank YouTexas! | ||
Special Ed Tips: Tips for Ensuring that IEPs Accurately Reflect ARD Discussions |
From Our Families: Dear Friends & Family - The Family Visit for Someone with Autism | ||
| From Our Families: The Search for a Diagnosis | Special Ed Tips: Little Chair - Long Table | ||
| Legislative Update: “And Here We Go!” | Around the State: Music Therapy for Children with Special Needs: An Overview | ||
Around the State: Hidden Talents: VSA arts’ Making Art with Your Child Corner |
From Our Families: God Lives Under the Bed | ||
From Our Families: Healthy G-Tube Feeding |
Around the State: Hidden Talents: VSA arts’ Making Art with Your Child Corner | ||
Around the State: The House That Kerry Built |
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Around the State:Toll Free Hotline for Air Travelers with Disabilities |
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The Budget Crisis – No Painless Cuts |
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During the 2002 campaigns, as the threat of a deficit was looming, the Governor and other government officials talked about how they would cut the fat out of the budget. Some of them now realize that they were on a wild goose chase.
What does that mean in the lives of individuals, families, and children? |
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Legislative Update
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Where do I begin? Anyone who reads the newspaper or watches the news on TV knows of the incredible budget crisis Texas is currently facing. Over the past 6 weeks, the House Appropriations Committee and the Senate Finance Committee have been holding hearings on the vast number of state funded programs including education and health and human services programs that provide supports and services to children with disabilities. While there are thousands of individuals with disabilities (adults and children) on various waiting lists –waiting for community-based services – there has been little talk this session of funding new slots. The discussion at the Capitol has been “where do we cut.” The following is a brief snapshot of some of the proposed policy changes to date. This is not by any means meant to be a complete list, nor is any of these proposals finalized. This is simply intended to give you an idea of what we may be facing. Eliminate eligibility for more than 16,000 individuals receiving community-based services through Primary Home Care.
All agencies will be affected. All programs face possible reductions. What can you do? Who to Call… House Appropriations Subcommittee on Health and Human Services Rep. Talmadge Heflin, Chair Senate Finance Committee Senator Teel Bivins, Chair |
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Central Texas Faith in Action |
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Every parent at one time or another needs and expects to receive respite from daily child rearing. This brief time away provides parents with an opportunity to relieve stress and to return with a renewed capacity to enjoy and nurture their children. Respite care for families of children with disabilities or chronic illness is a truly essential piece of a very complicated life. In national studies, respite care is the need most frequently cited by families of children with special needs and one that is very hard to find. These families care for their child 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, most times with very little support. Respite allows the primary caregiver and family members to step back from the consuming demands of care and take a little time for themselves. With respite, the primary caregiver is better able to continue to provide appropriate care required by the child over many months and years. |
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“Planning Care for Children in Respite Settings”
by Helen Laverty and Mary Reet |
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Written by Helen Laverty, a registered nurse who has worked with people with learning disabilities for twenty years and Mary Reet, a pediatric nurse with similar experience, this book was developed in response to a practical need - quality respite care for children with special needs and their families. Offering a new approach centered on the child's abilities rather than disabilities, this book employs a positive focus on emerging levels of independence in disabled children. |
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YOUTH LEADERSHIP PROGRAM 2003
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The Children’s Association for Maximum Potential (C.A.M.P.) is looking for future community leaders to participate in an exciting new program – the 2003 Texas Youth Leadership Forum (YLF) for young persons with disabilities. The YLF, which will be held at a Hill Country Conference Center in San Antonio, is a fun, educational, vocational awareness program that enables young people to learn from each other and from successful adults with disabilities who are recognized leaders and role models. |
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Summer Camp: To Send Your Child or |
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I sent my son who has mild cerebral palsy, speech delay and sensory issues, to a week-long day camp for the first time when he was 6 years old. It did not go well. Jason cried each morning as they pulled him up the road to camp, even though he had his best friend with him. I have never been able to get him to try it again, even though I know, once he could no longer see me, he had fun. I have talked to a lot of people about the dilemma of sending their child with disabilities to camp. For some, it is as good as it gets; for others it’s a disaster. Here are a few stories I collected in the hope that they might help with this very hard decision. |
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Mothers’ Milk Bank at Austin |
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"The milk that you sent to my son saved his life. You would never know how you helped us, he was so sick and little and we all know the big difference that breast-milk makes. We would never finish expressing our gratitude for all your help, please give my thanks to all the people that make this miracle possible. And never forget that your society helped save my son’s life.” –Premature recipient’s mom |
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Kid & Teen SAFE, Personal Safety for Students |
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Kid & TeenSAFE, located at SafePlace in Austin, can provide a 1-1/2 hour presentation for teachers, parents and family members to help them recognize and prevent abuse against students with disabilities. The training includes discussion of incidence of abuse, risk factors for our children, signs of abuse, responding to abuse disclosures, reporting abuse and personal safety strategies. |
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A farmer had some puppies he needed to sell. He painted a sign advertising the pups. And set about nailing it to a post on the edge of his yard. As he was driving the last nail into the post, he felt a tug on his overalls. He looked down into the eyes of a little boy. The world is full of people who need someone who understands! |
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We want to get as many resources on our Website Resource Directory as possible so parents can find the services and support they need. Please take a look at the Directory for your area and/or county at http://www.main.org/txp2p/Resources.html. If we are missing services that you are aware of or have the wrong info, like phone numbers, address, etc., please let us know. Either call Laura, Tammy or Sue at 866-896-6001 or 512-458-8600 or email Tammy-txp2p@sbcglobal.net. You will be helping other parents by reducing their search time. |
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There is Still Time to get organized |
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Ahhhh! Summer is here! Time to sleep in late, watch the flowers grow and enjoy the children playing quietly at our feet while we sip our iced tea. NOT! Let’s be honest here, we are all hot, tired, swamped with to-do lists, and the kids are pulling the house down around our ears all the while singing out, “We’re Bored!” Even my non-verbal child with cerebral palsy gets that look on her face like she is bored of vacation already. What is a Mom to do? We asked our veteran parents this question and here is some of their infinite wisdom, condensed into sound bites for the summer stressed parent. Hint #1: Summer success seems to depend on a schedule. Almost every parent stressed the fact that establishing a routine was of primary importance.
Hint #2: For a fun filled, cool summer, try swimming. Every community has a pool nearby, find out the hours and read on.
Hint #3: Libraries, summer school and reading programs are more ways parents can fill the hours of long hot summer days.
Hint #4: Movies, TV, board games, and inside fun are also some neat ways to while away the sunny days.
Hint #5 : And finally, we have camps, museums, the lake, and other outside activities
Although we have only listed a few ideas for summer, many of these parents had many similar ideas. I hope that you found just one thing to try this summer in your community. Although some of these places are in Austin , it does not mean that your community does not have them. Look around in your libraries, museums, and summer school programs. I bet you can find tons of fun things to do to make the summer go smoothly and successfully. And as one mom so eloquently put it “But mostly, summer is about getting to sleep late and eat lunch when we want to. That has to be my favorite part!!” Val Sutorius |
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How to Advocate For More Services |
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I get many phone calls from parents who are struggling with their early childhood program, school, or insurance company to get the services they feel their child needs. I decided to ask the experts on these subjects – parent professionals who deal with these questions every day – people I go to or send parents to when I don’t have the answers. It finally dawned on me that I could get the word out to more parents by putting it in the newsletter. I hope it helps! When Working with an Early Childhood Intervention Program If your child is receiving services from an Early Childhood Intervention (ECI) Program and you are not happy with the services or feel your child requires more, follow the steps listed below to help resolve your concerns:
When Working with your Child’s Special Education Program in Your Local ISD Having your child covered by IDEA, the federal law that mandates special education services, is a great opportunity. Your child has the chance to receive the supports and individualized education he or she needs while you, the parent, have a chance to be involved in the decision making process regarding your child’s educational services. IDEA provides you with a way to be a part of the educational team and voice your concerns, what might work best to help your child succeed, and your vision for your child’s future.
Get to know your child’s teacher through chance encounters, phone conversations, and informal meetings.
Keep a copy of your child’s IEP (Individual Education Program) and latest evaluation handy. Know what it says.
If you and school staff run into disagreements or hard feelings, take a deep breath and step back from the situation. Do not explode, but rather find someone outside of school to hear your story and sympathize with your emotions.
As your child gets older (around middle school), start to involve him or her in the IEP process as much as possible. Guide your child to be a “self-advocate,” able to describe his or her disability and the accommodations needed. When Working with your Insurance Company: I receive many calls from parents having problems navigating their insurance to obtain services for their children. I have found over the years that navigating the system has become more complicated due to the unending arrangements physicians and providers have with the insurance company. Most of these are not known by you, the parent, but affect how you can receive services.
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The Good (not much of that), The Bad (plentiful), |
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In the beginning, (January 2003) things were very, very, very bad. In the end (May, 2003) things are not as bad as initially proposed, but much damage has been done, and it is probably not over yet. As the agencies scramble to implement measures passed during the session, all efforts may come to a screeching halt, as the Texas Comptroller did not certify the budget (H.B. 1). What this means is that the budget passed by the Legislature exceeds the amount of money the state will have to spend over the next two years. The Texas Constitution does not allow this. Therefore, the following information is based on what happened during the regular session and what we know today ( 6/19/03 ). If the Legislature is required to develop a new budget, some things will obviously change. * * * * * * * * * What happened during the session you ask? That is a very good question. Many of us are still trying to wade through the mountains of paper. While you might expect that we would know everything that was passed, it is difficult because of the crazy way things are done in the final days of the legislature. During that time, many bills that died in committee or never got a hearing on the House or Senate floor are amended onto bills that are moving quickly through the process. The result of this mayhem is that bills passed in the final days of the session often look very different than they did when presented in committee. Sometimes this works for us, sometimes this works against us. One thing is for certain, however, even though we lost some very important things and basically gained nothing, the damage would have been much worse without the efforts of parents, families, and consumers. Major Implications of House Bill 1 (Appropriations Bill) and House Bill 2292 (Health and Human Services Reorganization: House Bill 1 is the Appropriations Bill that tells state agencies how much they can spend over the next two years and what they can spend those dollars on. House Bill 2292 is the legislation that will reorganize the state’s health and human services system. These two bills are closely tied as many of the projected cost savings in HB 2292 are assumed in HB 1. No part of the system was left untouched. While transition planning is underway, the process is expected to take 4-6 years. The Health and Human Services Commission (HHSC) will become a very large service provider under the direction of the Executive Commissioner. The current 11 separate health and human services agencies will be consolidated into four agencies and will be directed by four Commissioners. All rule making authority will rest with the Executive Commissioner of HHSC and will no longer rest with individual agency boards. The boards of each agency are eliminated and replaced with advisory councils that will have significantly less authority. Children’s Health Insurance Plan (CHIP)
Medicaid
Department of Human Services
Texas Department of Mental Health/Mental Retardation
Early Childhood Intervention (ECI)
Special Education Legislation
This is probably enough to digest for now. As the budget re-development begins and the health and human services reorganization proceeds, and as opportunities for family/consumer input develop, I will pass that information on to you. If you, or someone you know, would like to be added to the email alert list, please let me know. If you have a parent group that is interested in learning more about legislative/policy advocacy, I would be happy to help with that too. It is important that more parent/family voices be heard. You can contact me at Colleen.Horton@mail.utexas.edu. |
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How to Advocate for Parent Liaisons at Your ISD |
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As educators improve partnership practices with parents, more schools and districts are adding the position of parent liaison. Although many have been funded with Title I monies, an increasing amount are hired for the specific purpose of working in the area of special education. So, how do you convince your child’s campus and/or district to bring a parent liaison on board? |
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When you have a child who uses a wheelchair, getting them where they need to go is not always easy! However, finding the right type of van, a lift to fit your van and your needs, and a system to secure the wheelchair into the vehicle are easy when compared to locating assistance with funding for the purchase.
I have had 3 vans for my daughter - a full size, a full size-extended roof, and a minivan. I love my minivan and am amazed that it actually has more head clearance for my daughter when getting her in than the other two. However, I hate the feeling of “bottoming-out” every time I hit a speed bump because the van has been lowered! As much as I love my van, everyday I see options that I wish were available when I purchased mine in 2000 - like rear entry lifts! Regardless, having a vehicle that allows you to travel with your family, even if it is to therapy, is awesome! |
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Laura ran her 4th Junior Dillo mile on Saturday morning, March 30, 2003 . She coaxed her cousins into running with her this year. She also called her Grandma Mable to come watch her at the finish line. Laura doesn't worry if she'll get tired. She knows she will. She knows all the kids will pass her in the first several seconds. With half the race to go, I watch her and think of the loneliness of the long distance runner. Most of the kids have already finished, and Laura has the track all to herself, no one to pace her. Later, I asked her what she thinks about during the race. She answered, "Just a little bit more." She's instructed her parents to stay on the sidelines. We try not to coach her during the race. She knows her body, and what she can do. She knows that a policeman will be trailing her on a motorcycle. It scared her that first year. I see her slow down, but she never stops. She hears a cheer from an onlooker, and her pace quickens; her smile widens. She knows she has people waiting for her. She knows she is not forgotten. As Laura approaches the finish line, the crowd cheers and chants her name. Her time is 22 minutes, 5 seconds--a minute, 36 seconds faster than last year's. Grandma Mable is confused about why the crowd is cheering and that they know Laura's name. She asks Laura if she won. Laura explains, "Everyone is a winner!" |
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School Begins! Which was it for you? |
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I have to admit, I was really looking forward to the first day of school this year! July and August were really rough months for me - trying to work, take care of my ailing 88 year old mother and a dying dog, not to mention leaving my 17-year-old son home alone –it all took it’s toll on me. School would at least take one worry off my list - until Jason looked at me in a panic that first morning and, with tears in his eyes, said, “I don’t want to take bowling!” Well, we all know bowling should be a goof-off sport for a teenager - but not for one with anxiety. Sensory Integration Dysfunction, and mild Cerebral Palsy. I took several big breathes and reassured him it would be fine - they would not bowl the first day. They’d probably just meet in the gym and talk about how to get across the street to the bowling alley. His Occupational Therapist had said she would go with him the first couple of days. By the time we got to school, he was still nervous but was able to get out of the car and into the high school. He’s taking all regular classes this year and he works very hard. Well, I was right about the first day - they did not go to bowling. However, my smugness didn’t last long - he very angrily informed me on the second day of school that you have to have SOCKS to bowl AND know what size shoe you wear AND tie shoe laces! How could I forget all of that!?! I knew then I wanted to hear other people’s first day stories and get some ideas that may help with some of the transitions both our children and we face at school. Here is what I received: * I'm sure that this is not unique to us, but this is probably one of the most valuable things we've done for Jake over the past several years. We did this when he transitioned from one campus to another for second grade, again when the attendance zones changed and his home campus was changed, and then this year when he was about to go from his elementary campus to his "new" middle school campus: we arrange a meeting and tour of the "new" campus with the principal, usually after school when things are quiet and pretty empty. We have also arranged opportunities during these times to meet his new teachers and explore classrooms and other facilities. When he transferred from Buda Elementary to Elm Grove Elementary at the end of 2nd grade, he was horribly anxious about the fire drill bells at the new campus. An email to his new principal resulted not only in a personal tour of the campus, but also a running of the fire drill bells so that Jake could get a feel for how loud they would be and what kind of sound it would make. His new principal allowed him to make an announcement over the PA to all staff on campus at that time that the bells were just a test. The fire drill was initiated by the principal by using a wall control panel and certain number codes. Thank goodness we had told her ahead of time about Jake's fascination with numbers and his incredible memory. She was able to shield her input of the numbers from Jake's view so that he would not be able to initiate a fire drill of his own! At the end of last school year, his new principal, his "old" counselor, Jake, and I toured his new middle school campus. He looked in many classrooms, visited with several people, and even met the campus police officer. His anxiety level diminished immediately, to one that is probably more fitting for any child about to go from elementary to middle school. After tours and visits like this, he was able to visualize what his "school life" would be like and was ready to get started! Jeanine Pinner * When moving from elementary to middle school, I pulled David out of school during the day and went over to the middle school so he could experience the bell for class change and the throng of people in the hallway before he really had to. I did the same thing moving to high school - and a good thing, too. Instead of a nice bell, they have a claxon horn!! Rilla Chaka * When it was time for Kaly to transition from elementary school to middle school, I spent an awful lot of time trying to prevent the whole “moving up” business and keep her where we were comfortable. However, it seems that all the time it takes to finally get comfortable dissipates and it is time to move on again. So, when it was time for high school, I was a mess. In her March ARD, we decided that Kaly could go to the High School (with one of the aids from her class) for 3 afternoons a week until the end of the year. This would allow her (and me) to get use to the idea of her new school with someone she (and I) were comfortable. Then when school was out that summer, Kaly would attend summer school there, which gave her the freedom to learn about the school without most of the students being in the way. By the time the first day of high school came around, Kaly and I were very comfortable with the whole situation. If I had known how wonderful high school would be I think we would have skipped middle school! Tammy Mann * Let's start the last day of summer. Jordan woke up screaming, "My life is over" when he realized this was the last day of summer. It also turned out to be the day he picked up his first pair of glasses. Although we did do something fun that day, he wasn't thrilled about wearing the glasses to school. He said people would call him "four eyes.” After reassuring him that many people wear glasses like one of his best friends and both of his teachers (not to mention mom & dad), he reluctantly wore them. Jordan is ten years old entering fifth grade. On the first day of school, we pulled up to the curb for the drop-off. Jordan had his backpack stuffed with school supplies, with another huge bag to carry in. As he stepped out of the car, he bumped his head, something he had never done before, and then almost missed the step up the curb. He said, "I just can't wear these glasses!" Well I didn't blame him and wanted to say, "Just let me park the car and help you.” Instead, I took a breath and said, "Just wear them. You'll get used to them." To my amazement, he turned and walked into the school. Three weeks later, he's still wearing the glasses, and still going to school! Charee Vogel * Christain started Middle School this year and, although she is adjusting, she still asks for her teacher of last year and she points "that way" to where her Elementary school is. She is doing quite well and she walks all by herself from the last 2 periods to the bus or to where I pick her up after school. However, I am not comfortable with Middle School because the teachers expect her to do everything for herself and that means going to the classes by herself. Being Middle School, I'm just afraid the students (some intentionally and some not) will trip her and she may get hurt. So far, she is doing very well and I am so proud of her. Feliciana Govea * Chris and my school days are over since he is now 32, hard for me to believe. But every year at this time, I feel a bit melancholy and sad for he has flown from the nest, as has my daughter. All the stress of what the new teacher is like, how he'll adjust, will he be happy, and even if the bus can get him home to the right house is over and whereas it would be insane to say I miss it, it would be a lie to say I don't miss it a bit. My mornings and evenings are so quiet, too quiet. I miss having him around too since he's so happy in the group home. So, while it seems so hard for all of you, stop and think how quiet and sad it will be when it is all over. Enjoy your hurried breakfasts, tears of separation, lost lunches, ARD meetings, "he's not my friend" remarks, bus rides, stinky shoes and progress reports for they all do end and far sooner than you realize now. Ann Hardie Thanks to all the moms who shared their stories. I hope we have given you some useful ideas to use for your child’s upcoming transitions. By the way, Jason has now figured out what a goof-off class is - he can get other kids to bowl for him and the coach doesn’t even notice! One mom told me that the first day of school was great - she just didn’t send him to school but chose to home school instead. We have started a listserv for parents that have chosen to home school their children with special needs. If you would like to join this group to share ideas on home schooling, please email me at Laura-txp2p@sbcglobal.net |
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| Tips for Ensuring that IEPs Accurately Reflect ARD Discussions By Ronnie Schleiss, Austin , Tx |
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At some point, chances are you will be heading into an ARD meeting with the objective of altering and hopefully improving your child’s educational program. If you want to be as effective as possible, there are a couple of things you should be aware of and a couple of things you can do to increase the likelihood of having your requests honored and accurately recorded and made a part of the official ARD record. But, before we get to what you need to do in an ARD, you need to be aware that most teachers, principals and other parents have never read the law and that you cannot count on them to know the letter of the law nor to give you an totally accurate interpretation of the law. Most people know what they know about the law through memos, workshops, and what someone told them. The chances are very high that you will, at some time, be told grossly inaccurate information that may or may not have been intended to circumvent the requirements of the law, but none the less, might severely alter the appropriateness of your child’s program. It is for this reason that you need to be well informed about the law, have access to all IEP data, and always ask to see written support of any district claims that limit access to services. The following can help insure your requests for services are not ignored or unjustly denied:
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